i just wondering whom does the most housework in your homes i am here i am a maid in my home or at least i'm treated like it anyway and very underpaid and no vacation or sick day
had to modify cause i said pay insted of day
it felt very good to get that out in the open after 5years of bottling it up
when i am alone, i do all the housework, lol.
when i am with b/f, we share.
same here pugs >:(
Quote from: krispy on May 30, 2006, 07:17:21 PM
when i am alone, i do all the housework, lol.
when i am with b/f, we share.
at least your b/f does some all my hubby does is eat sleep dirty place n work my full time job is maid here in my home and i am disabled i sorry everyone i had to let it out or i wa going to do something i was going to regret later thank you all for letting me get it out right here
Quote from: mama on May 30, 2006, 07:21:02 PM
same here pugs >:(
at least i not the only one
one more thing i think hubby hates seeing me enjoy myself here on the computer he has to treat me like i am just a maid i was put here to cook clean do his wash etc etc etc he thinks he has to keep me busy like Cinderella so i cannot do anything i want
I'm gonna blow ppl please forgive me this next part is for my hubby
I GOT SOME NEWS YOU LAZY FREAKIN BASTERD I NOT CINDERELLA AND I NOT YOUR FREAKIN SLAVE OR YOUR MAID FOR THAT MATTER. YOU ARE A GROWN MAN ACT LIKE IT AND TREAT ME WITH THE RESPECT I DESERVE
damn that felt good
I really can't complain, but I am going to a bit. My fiancee does cook, clean, vacumn, dust, wash clothes and dishes, when he feels like it. I still haven't used the vacumn since we moved into our apartment (like 2 months or so) cuz he does it. But lately he has gotten more lazy, but hopefully it won't change much once we get married.
Quote from: pugsly on May 30, 2006, 07:27:54 PM
Quote from: mama on May 30, 2006, 07:21:02 PM
same here pugs >:(
at least i not the only one
one more thing i think hubby hates seeing me enjoy myself here on the computer he has to treat me like i am just a maid i was put here to cook clean do his wash etc etc etc he thinks he has to keep me busy like Cinderella so i cannot do anything i want
I'm gonna blow ppl please forgive me this next part is for my hubby
I GOT SOME NEWS YOU LAZY FREAKIN BASTERD I NOT CINDERELLA AND I NOT YOUR FREAKIN SLAVE OR YOUR MAID FOR THAT MATTER. YOU ARE A GROWN MAN ACT LIKE IT AND TREAT ME WITH THE RESPECT I DESERVE
damn that felt good
:oo Now now, be careful with those harsh words to your better half..You may have fun on this forum, but we can't afford to pay your bills when he kicks you out for being on the computer all day and night :oo
Quote from: Tara on May 30, 2006, 07:37:39 PM
Quote from: pugsly on May 30, 2006, 07:27:54 PM
Quote from: mama on May 30, 2006, 07:21:02 PM
same here pugs >:(
at least i not the only one
one more thing i think hubby hates seeing me enjoy myself here on the computer he has to treat me like i am just a maid i was put here to cook clean do his wash etc etc etc he thinks he has to keep me busy like Cinderella so i cannot do anything i want
I'm gonna blow ppl please forgive me this next part is for my hubby
I GOT SOME NEWS YOU LAZY FREAKIN BASTERD I NOT CINDERELLA AND I NOT YOUR FREAKIN SLAVE OR YOUR MAID FOR THAT MATTER. YOU ARE A GROWN MAN ACT LIKE IT AND TREAT ME WITH THE RESPECT I DESERVE
damn that felt good
:oo Now now, be careful with those harsh words to your better half..You may have fun on this forum, but we can't afford to pay your bills when he kicks you out for being on the computer all day and night :oo
ahh tara the nights are mine g/f he not here i party all night
Ok, I'm sorry ladies...but you need to expect more from your husbands..IMHO.
I've been married for almost 2 years now (so maybe you can attribute my behavior to 'oh he's still a newlywed'), and I am MORE than capable of pitching in with my fair share of the housework. If I have dirty laundry, I do it. If the dishes pile up in the sink, I wash them. When the yard needs mowed, I mow it. When my wife works night, I make her dinner.
Maybe it's because I lived on my own as a batchelor for a couple years after college, but my mama didn't raise me expecting to be waited on hand & foot once I got married. I can sew my own buttons and I put the toilet seat down, thank you very much.
I'm sorry your husbands "make" you do so much around the house. Hopefully they at least tell you how much they appreciate what you do every now and then...
I'm to damn picky, I would rather do the housework myself , that way I know its done right...lmao
Why spend half the day bitching at your hubby to help clean? Its easier to do it yourself.
Yeah what Tara said.....no, what Ethan said,,,,,well, definately not what Pugsly said, Oh hell, I don't know ???
Quote from: Ethan_Hawley on May 30, 2006, 07:42:08 PM
Ok, I'm sorry ladies...but you need to expect more from your husbands..IMHO.
I've been married for almost 2 years now (so maybe you can attribute my behavior to 'oh he's still a newlywed'), and I am MORE than capable of pitching in with my fair share of the housework. If I have dirty laundry, I do it. If the dishes pile up in the sink, I wash them. When the yard needs mowed, I mow it. When my wife works night, I make her dinner.
Maybe it's because I lived on my own as a batchelor for a couple years after college, but my mama didn't raise me expecting to be waited on hand & foot once I got married. I can sew my own buttons and I put the toilet seat down, thank you very much.
I'm sorry your husbands "make" you do so much around the house. Hopefully they at least tell you how much they appreciate what you do every now and then...
i just wish my hubby knew how to flush the toilet he lived at home till i met him 6 years ago 1 year after we met his dad kicked him out we got married and moved in together hes going to be 48 this augest and stil thinks he lives at home where everything is done for him you want to knowwhat his oms words where to me the day of moving "you don't know whats your in for my son likes it being waited on hand n foot and i done that with him the whle time he lived at home,he will expect that from you"
i got news for both of them NOT!
i don't expect much out of him but take clothes to laundrymatt and pay the lady to wash them pick it up next day take trash out everyday and flush the toilet and clean it if you dirty it seriously its not much to ask for
Quote from: Tara on May 30, 2006, 07:43:58 PM
I'm to damn picky, I would rather do the housework myself , that way I know its done right...lmao
Why spend half the day bitching at your hubby to help clean? Its easier to do it yourself.
tara i am in a wheelchair i do need help sometimes
Quote from: pugsly on May 30, 2006, 07:51:50 PM
Quote from: Ethan_Hawley on May 30, 2006, 07:42:08 PM
Ok, I'm sorry ladies...but you need to expect more from your husbands..IMHO.
I've been married for almost 2 years now (so maybe you can attribute my behavior to 'oh he's still a newlywed'), and I am MORE than capable of pitching in with my fair share of the housework. If I have dirty laundry, I do it. If the dishes pile up in the sink, I wash them. When the yard needs mowed, I mow it. When my wife works night, I make her dinner.
Maybe it's because I lived on my own as a batchelor for a couple years after college, but my mama didn't raise me expecting to be waited on hand & foot once I got married. I can sew my own buttons and I put the toilet seat down, thank you very much.
I'm sorry your husbands "make" you do so much around the house. Hopefully they at least tell you how much they appreciate what you do every now and then...
i just wish my hubby knew how to flush the toilet he lived at home till i met him 6 years ago 1 year after we met his dad kicked him out we got married and moved in together hes going to be 48 this augest and stil thinks he lives at home where everything is done for him you want to knowwhat his oms words where to me the day of moving "you don't know whats your in for my son likes it being waited on hand n foot and i done that with him the whle time he lived at home,he will expect that from you"
i got news for both of them NOT!
i don't expect much out of him but take clothes to laundrymatt and pay the lady to wash them pick it up next day take trash out everyday and flush the toilet and clean it if you dirty it seriously its not much to ask for
Just show him this Pugsly.....
(https://img241.imageshack.us/img241/3562/y45871257nv.gif) (https://imageshack.us) :-[ ???
Quote from: ~Ãutolovér~ on May 30, 2006, 07:55:54 PM
Quote from: pugsly on May 30, 2006, 07:51:50 PM
Quote from: Ethan_Hawley on May 30, 2006, 07:42:08 PM
Ok, I'm sorry ladies...but you need to expect more from your husbands..IMHO.
I've been married for almost 2 years now (so maybe you can attribute my behavior to 'oh he's still a newlywed'), and I am MORE than capable of pitching in with my fair share of the housework. If I have dirty laundry, I do it. If the dishes pile up in the sink, I wash them. When the yard needs mowed, I mow it. When my wife works night, I make her dinner.
Maybe it's because I lived on my own as a batchelor for a couple years after college, but my mama didn't raise me expecting to be waited on hand & foot once I got married. I can sew my own buttons and I put the toilet seat down, thank you very much.
I'm sorry your husbands "make" you do so much around the house. Hopefully they at least tell you how much they appreciate what you do every now and then...
i just wish my hubby knew how to flush the toilet he lived at home till i met him 6 years ago 1 year after we met his dad kicked him out we got married and moved in together hes going to be 48 this augest and stil thinks he lives at home where everything is done for him you want to knowwhat his oms words where to me the day of moving "you don't know whats your in for my son likes it being waited on hand n foot and i done that with him the whle time he lived at home,he will expect that from you"
i got news for both of them NOT!
i don't expect much out of him but take clothes to laundrymatt and pay the lady to wash them pick it up next day take trash out everyday and flush the toilet and clean it if you dirty it seriously its not much to ask for
Just show him this Pugsly.....
(https://img241.imageshack.us/img241/3562/y45871257nv.gif) (https://imageshack.us) :-[ ???
lol auto you go girl i like that one
hmm i just came up with something to keep him busy on thursday or fridays to get hi out of da house make a extra long shopping list and send him for the stuff but get this i send him for half of it thursday and the other half friday so that means he at walmart everyday no days away lol i love revenge :)) :))
The only thing I hate is cooking and cleaning my car...Everything else I have no problem with.
Pugsly, I'm gonna tell you the same thing I told my daughters when they got involved with men. They (men) will only treat you as badly as you allow them to. When you stop allowing them to treat you like a maid/doormat they will either stop, leave, or put you out. It sounds harsh but I would advise my daughters that any of those options were better that being mistreated, under valued and miserable!
My fiance and I do the housework together. He and I both believe it should be split 50/50, since we both live here. I like doing the laundry. He takes out the trash. We both do the dishes. We both clean the house. I will cook sometimes, but I don't really like to. I don't like men who think that all women are suppose to do is cook and clean all day. I don't have any sons yet, but when I do they will be raised to cook and clean.
Quote from: tigereyes on May 30, 2006, 08:20:44 PM
My fiance and I do the housework together. He and I both believe it should be split 50/50, since we both live here. I like doing the laundry. He takes out the trash. We both do the dishes. We both clean the house. I will cook sometimes, but I don't really like to. I don't like men who think that all women are suppose to do is cook and clean all day. I don't have any sons yet, but when I do they will be raised to cook and clean.
I agree...
To all the moms out there, teach your sons how to act like gentlemen and they really will turn out alright. I promise. Open doors for ladies, say yes ma'am or yes sir, stand up when a lady enters the room, look people in the eye, stand up straight, say please and thank you. Little things go along way. Again, all this is IMHO. I'm certainly NOT trying to tell people how to act or raise their children, that's certainly none of my business.
Quote from: Ethan_Hawley on May 30, 2006, 08:31:59 PM
Quote from: tigereyes on May 30, 2006, 08:20:44 PM
My fiance and I do the housework together. He and I both believe it should be split 50/50, since we both live here. I like doing the laundry. He takes out the trash. We both do the dishes. We both clean the house. I will cook sometimes, but I don't really like to. I don't like men who think that all women are suppose to do is cook and clean all day. I don't have any sons yet, but when I do they will be raised to cook and clean.
I agree...
To all the moms out there, teach your sons how to act like gentlemen and they really will turn out alright. I promise. Open doors for ladies, say yes ma'am or yes sir, stand up when a lady enters the room, look people in the eye, stand up straight, say please and thank you. Little things go along way. Again, all this is IMHO. I'm certainly NOT trying to tell people how to act or raise their children, that's certainly none of my business.
Ethan, I agree with all you said.
i sure wish it was 50/50 espeaclly when it comes to something in the kichen
everything is to high for me at a seated level it pisses me off very easily especially the stove the knobs are in the back i take risk of gettin burned trying to cook
Quote from: pugsly on May 30, 2006, 08:42:56 PM
i sure wish it was 50/50 espeaclly when it comes to something in the kichen
everything is to high for me at a seated level it pisses me off very easily especially the stove the knobs are in the back i take risk of gettin burned trying to cook
Your husband needs to start helping you out. I would tell him if he wants dinner to make it himself, or at least give you a hand.
It really sucks that the only reason why he's expecting you to do everything, is because his mom was that with him, so he never learned how to do stuff himself.
Quote from: tigereyes on May 30, 2006, 08:53:34 PM
Quote from: pugsly on May 30, 2006, 08:42:56 PM
i sure wish it was 50/50 especially when it comes to something in the kitchen
everything is to high for me at a seated level it pisses me off very easily especially the stove the knobs are in the back i take risk of gettin burned trying to cook
Your husband needs to start helping you out. I would tell him if he wants dinner to make it himself, or at least give you a hand.
It really sucks that the only reason why he's expecting you to do everything, is because his mom was that with him, so he never learned how to do stuff himself.
i truly don't expect him to do everything but like you said tiger to just give a helping hand
Quote from: Ethan_Hawley on May 30, 2006, 07:42:08 PM
Ok, I'm sorry ladies...but you need to expect more from your husbands..IMHO.
I've been married for almost 2 years now (so maybe you can attribute my behavior to 'oh he's still a newlywed'), and I am MORE than capable of pitching in with my fair share of the housework. If I have dirty laundry, I do it. If the dishes pile up in the sink, I wash them. When the yard needs mowed, I mow it. When my wife works night, I make her dinner.
Maybe it's because I lived on my own as a batchelor for a couple years after college, but my mama didn't raise me expecting to be waited on hand & foot once I got married. I can sew my own buttons and I put the toilet seat down, thank you very much.
I'm sorry your husbands "make" you do so much around the house. Hopefully they at least tell you how much they appreciate what you do every now and then...
You
so just bumped yourself up to husband #2. Tee hee!
My first husband, Mr. Foxx, is a lot like Mr. Ethan here...and its effing awesome. He pretty much has rebuilt our house from scratch, takes out the trash, makes dinner every other night, cleans the litter box, mows the grass, empties the dishwasher, etc.
This isn't 1950 Pugsly. You need to tell him to shape up or ship out. No one deserves to be treated like a maid.
Very well said, Foxx.
Quote from: tigereyes on May 30, 2006, 09:13:55 PM
Very well said, Foxx.
Thanks woman...
Quote from: tigereyes on May 30, 2006, 08:20:44 PM
My fiance and I do the housework together. He and I both believe it should be split 50/50, since we both live here. I like doing the laundry. He takes out the trash. We both do the dishes. We both clean the house. I will cook sometimes, but I don't really like to. I don't like men who think that all women are suppose to do is cook and clean all day. I don't have any sons yet, but when I do they will be raised to cook and clean.
You too...
Thanks Foxxy
Quote from: foxx on May 30, 2006, 09:10:00 PM
Quote from: Ethan_Hawley on May 30, 2006, 07:42:08 PM
Ok, I'm sorry ladies...but you need to expect more from your husbands..IMHO.
I've been married for almost 2 years now (so maybe you can attribute my behavior to 'oh he's still a newlywed'), and I am MORE than capable of pitching in with my fair share of the housework. If I have dirty laundry, I do it. If the dishes pile up in the sink, I wash them. When the yard needs mowed, I mow it. When my wife works night, I make her dinner.
Maybe it's because I lived on my own as a batchelor for a couple years after college, but my mama didn't raise me expecting to be waited on hand & foot once I got married. I can sew my own buttons and I put the toilet seat down, thank you very much.
I'm sorry your husbands "make" you do so much around the house. Hopefully they at least tell you how much they appreciate what you do every now and then...
You so just bumped yourself up to husband #2. Tee hee!
My first husband, Mr. Foxx, is a lot like Mr. Ethan here...and its effing awesome. He pretty much has rebuilt our house from scratch, takes out the trash, makes dinner every other night, cleans the litter box, mows the grass, empties the dishwasher, etc.
This isn't 1950 Pugsly. You need to tell him to shape up or ship out. No one deserves to be treated like a maid.
Sheeeeesh Foxxy *blush* <3
Mrs. Ethan sure wouldn't be too happy with any extra-marital activity but thanks for the compliment. Maybe we can just be drinking/pogo buddies?! ;) ;D
The lady, Foxx, has a great point Pugsly. Especially considering your condition; your husband (IMHO) should be more involved around the house. My mom is the same way...she taught her sons well, but doesn't expect the same from her husband (my idiot father). You deserve to be treated well..not because you do things around the house, or clean up around the house. You deserve to be treated well because you are his wife and he loves you, and that's not how you honor and respect someone you love.
Quote from: Ethan_Hawley on May 30, 2006, 09:18:41 PM
Quote from: foxx on May 30, 2006, 09:10:00 PM
Quote from: Ethan_Hawley on May 30, 2006, 07:42:08 PM
Ok, I'm sorry ladies...but you need to expect more from your husbands..IMHO.
I've been married for almost 2 years now (so maybe you can attribute my behavior to 'oh he's still a newlywed'), and I am MORE than capable of pitching in with my fair share of the housework. If I have dirty laundry, I do it. If the dishes pile up in the sink, I wash them. When the yard needs mowed, I mow it. When my wife works night, I make her dinner.
Maybe it's because I lived on my own as a batchelor for a couple years after college, but my mama didn't raise me expecting to be waited on hand & foot once I got married. I can sew my own buttons and I put the toilet seat down, thank you very much.
I'm sorry your husbands "make" you do so much around the house. Hopefully they at least tell you how much they appreciate what you do every now and then...
You so just bumped yourself up to husband #2. Tee hee!
My first husband, Mr. Foxx, is a lot like Mr. Ethan here...and its effing awesome. He pretty much has rebuilt our house from scratch, takes out the trash, makes dinner every other night, cleans the litter box, mows the grass, empties the dishwasher, etc.
This isn't 1950 Pugsly. You need to tell him to shape up or ship out. No one deserves to be treated like a maid.
Sheeeeesh Foxxy *blush* <3
Mrs. Ethan sure wouldn't be too happy with any extra-marital activity but thanks for the compliment. Maybe we can just be drinking/pogo buddies?! ;) ;D
The lady, Foxx, has a great point Pugsly. Especially considering your condition; your husband (IMHO) should be more involved around the house. My mom is the same way...she taught her sons well, but doesn't expect the same from her husband (my idiot father). You deserve to be treated well..not because you do things around the house, or clean up around the house. You deserve to be treated well because you are his wife and he loves you, and that's not how you honor and respect someone you love.
LOL...newlyweds. Sheesh!
You mean you don't have wife #2 lined up? That's just poor planning. ;)
Quote from: foxx on May 30, 2006, 09:21:54 PM
Quote from: Ethan_Hawley on May 30, 2006, 09:18:41 PM
Quote from: foxx on May 30, 2006, 09:10:00 PM
Quote from: Ethan_Hawley on May 30, 2006, 07:42:08 PM
Ok, I'm sorry ladies...but you need to expect more from your husbands..IMHO.
I've been married for almost 2 years now (so maybe you can attribute my behavior to 'oh he's still a newlywed'), and I am MORE than capable of pitching in with my fair share of the housework. If I have dirty laundry, I do it. If the dishes pile up in the sink, I wash them. When the yard needs mowed, I mow it. When my wife works night, I make her dinner.
Maybe it's because I lived on my own as a batchelor for a couple years after college, but my mama didn't raise me expecting to be waited on hand & foot once I got married. I can sew my own buttons and I put the toilet seat down, thank you very much.
I'm sorry your husbands "make" you do so much around the house. Hopefully they at least tell you how much they appreciate what you do every now and then...
You so just bumped yourself up to husband #2. Tee hee!
My first husband, Mr. Foxx, is a lot like Mr. Ethan here...and its effing awesome. He pretty much has rebuilt our house from scratch, takes out the trash, makes dinner every other night, cleans the litter box, mows the grass, empties the dishwasher, etc.
This isn't 1950 Pugsly. You need to tell him to shape up or ship out. No one deserves to be treated like a maid.
Sheeeeesh Foxxy *blush* <3
Mrs. Ethan sure wouldn't be too happy with any extra-marital activity but thanks for the compliment. Maybe we can just be drinking/pogo buddies?! ;) ;D
The lady, Foxx, has a great point Pugsly. Especially considering your condition; your husband (IMHO) should be more involved around the house. My mom is the same way...she taught her sons well, but doesn't expect the same from her husband (my idiot father). You deserve to be treated well..not because you do things around the house, or clean up around the house. You deserve to be treated well because you are his wife and he loves you, and that's not how you honor and respect someone you love.
LOL...newlyweds. Sheesh!
You mean you don't have wife #2 lined up? That's just poor planning. ;)
Well, hopefully (god willing) there won't ever be a need for a #2....buuuuuuuuuuut I guess you never can be too careful.
I hate to break this to you guys, but ummm I have the best man ever....if you don't believe me then just ask me and I will tell you again that he is :)) With that being said, (TM Homer) I'm headed out to take mini pictures...lmao
Quote from: Ethan_Hawley on May 30, 2006, 09:18:41 PM
Quote from: foxx on May 30, 2006, 09:10:00 PM
Quote from: Ethan_Hawley on May 30, 2006, 07:42:08 PM
Ok, I'm sorry ladies...but you need to expect more from your husbands..IMHO.
I've been married for almost 2 years now (so maybe you can attribute my behavior to 'oh he's still a newlywed'), and I am MORE than capable of pitching in with my fair share of the housework. If I have dirty laundry, I do it. If the dishes pile up in the sink, I wash them. When the yard needs mowed, I mow it. When my wife works night, I make her dinner.
Maybe it's because I lived on my own as a batchelor for a couple years after college, but my mama didn't raise me expecting to be waited on hand & foot once I got married. I can sew my own buttons and I put the toilet seat down, thank you very much.
I'm sorry your husbands "make" you do so much around the house. Hopefully they at least tell you how much they appreciate what you do every now and then...
You so just bumped yourself up to husband #2. Tee hee!
My first husband, Mr. Foxx, is a lot like Mr. Ethan here...and its effing awesome. He pretty much has rebuilt our house from scratch, takes out the trash, makes dinner every other night, cleans the litter box, mows the grass, empties the dishwasher, etc.
This isn't 1950 Pugsly. You need to tell him to shape up or ship out. No one deserves to be treated like a maid.
Sheeeeesh Foxxy *blush* <3
Mrs. Ethan sure wouldn't be too happy with any extra-marital activity but thanks for the compliment. Maybe we can just be drinking/pogo buddies?! ;) ;D
The lady, Foxx, has a great point Pugsly. Especially considering your condition; your husband (IMHO) should be more involved around the house. My mom is the same way...she taught her sons well, but doesn't expect the same from her husband (my idiot father). You deserve to be treated well..not because you do things around the house, or clean up around the house. You deserve to be treated well because you are his wife and he loves you, and that's not how you honor and respect someone you love.
That was very well put Ethan.
Quote from: Tara on May 30, 2006, 09:25:24 PM
I hate to break this to you guys, but ummm I have the best man ever....if you don't believe me then just ask me and I will tell you again that he is :)) With that being said, (TM Homer) I'm headed out to take mini pictures...lmao
With the things Homer has been saying over the last few days...I'll give ya that one.
Are you staying up late to play tonight?
*crosses fingers*Go check out my mini...Hee!
I realize my post here is going to upset some people. I can't say it as nicely as Ethan or Foxx did.
If you dont like it? Change it. I am fully aware that changing things is not always easy, but if its being done for the right reasons its definitely worth it.
Quote from: ClingFree on May 31, 2006, 04:26:17 AM
I realize my post here is going to upset some people. I can't say it as nicely as Ethan or Foxx did.
If you dont like it? Change it. I am fully aware that changing things is not always easy, but if its being done for the right reasons its definitely worth it.
It's not going to upset me, I know where your words come from. I've also been where you have. :-*